Its already 2019 ! STOP GIVING LABELS !!!


You are sitting in a group of five people, one of the is a “Patwari” (Supporter of N-League), the second one is “Shoda”, the third one a “Bachiboy”(Playboy), fourth one “Mota” (Fat) and you might be “Parhaku”(Nerd). Each one of you has been given a “Label” and five of you are known by these labels.

Your friends have stopped calling you by your actual names and these are your new names. You might sometimes feel annoyed or not well by being called by such names but your friends call this as “Frankness in Friendship” and you don’t say a word but honestly do you like being called by this name.

That Patwari friend of yours might support Noon League because of their polices or maybe he is more towards development of infrastructure but when you call him by such name he might hesitate to speak in a discussion because of one of you will get up and say “Ye tou Patwari Hai” and then he wont say a word or might say but the worth of his point in the discussion will be “Zero”.

Your Parhaku friend is not a Nerd by default and likes to party with you as much as you do but when he says that he wants to party, you will all be like “Tu tou parhaku hai, tu par”. Maybe he has some ambitions or has a smart brain but when you treat him like this, he might not come to party with you because he will always be worried about being called a Nerd.

Your Mota (Fat) friend will always be worried about his dressing and is the most complicated amongst you guys because he is Fat. He might be trying to loose weight but because you have always demotivated him calling Fat due to which he does not want to lose weight.

Meanwhile your “Bachiboy” friend is always been motivated for his interaction with girls and inside he might be a very decent boy but because you are motivating him to go in a different direction, He might stop treating women with respect, and not just women you guys too because you are not perfect in having girls as friends and will always be with him not just because of him being decent but you also want to socialize with girls.

These Labels are just examples but there are thousands of them and you don’t even know what it does to a person. You might just ruin their future just because you think its good and funny.

Start giving Labels, instead call them by their actual names and treat your friends with respect.
I have seen Fat people loosing their weight as soon as their marriage is fixed and you must have seen it too because suddenly the are motivated about their personality and its only because of their life partner who give them the motivation because of Love between them and this is not just a co-incidence of loosing 30-40kg in two months, its only because of the motivation and if you motivate your friends and their life improves, you have done of your job of becoming a good friend.

Same is with the case of Bachiboy becoming most decent husband, Patwari becoming a debater on National TV and Parhaku guy becoming a Scientist.

It’s the start of 2019 and its better we stop giving labels.

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